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Monday, January 29, 2007
1/29/2007 05:50:00 PM

hey guys..its time for an entry into my blog again..been awhile i guess..and yes shuling..i'll enter more often when i can...but usually i do so when i really have nothing to do at home and have so much to say to no one but the blog...which rarely happens...so i hope u all r glad to see me rarely blogging..or else..if u do see more of it...thats mean there's really something wrong with me..especially with a social life like mine lar..

its like hard now..cos..i'm in the office..and the usual comp i used..has been moved away due to some virus attack or something..so this com is like in the open..so..not very comfortable..i usually blog nowadays while having office duties in my office..its like duties that u have to ensure the locking up of the office after everyone is done...usually of course NSFs(National servicemen full-time) will end faster than working personnels on their timings..but for some reason..we have to stay back to ensure everything is kept in the cupboards..locked up..all the secret and sensitive stuff and make sure the office is secured when everyone leaves...

okay..today i decided to like comment more abt myself rather than anything else in this world...

and if u know me well..there's this thing called being an MCP(male chauvinist pig)..okay..let me bring u to understanding this term..its just a guy,that usually u only see in the past having such mindset,that thinks his own gender as a guy is much than that of the other sex..the girl...and to an extreme case...being better than anything in the world..hoping everything except God...or else thats a major egoist...

let me show u some cases...bf and gf goes out...gf asks bf to shut up and listen to what she has to say and she decides for everything and anything and bf is just to follow her....bf is greatly offended..pride is greatly hurt..thinks gf is going beyond her rights of being a girl in the relationship and is trying to take the role of a "guy" in the relationship...

okay..if thats to u like "every guy will feel that way..how do u different shape an MCP?"...

an MCP's rules :

in the case of meals, girls r not allowed to pay the bill for him...in most cases,he wants to pay at least a bit more...and in extreme cases that the girl insists she pays...she only gets to pay her share..

in the case of carrying heavy loads..guy carries for the girl..not in the sense of being only a gentlemanly..but as the male gender in his mind is stronger than the female gender..the male should naturally do what he thinks the female cannot possibly do...

in the case of a competition...if its a friendly match..the guy can allow the girl to win..but if the girl is strongly insistent on wanting to win the guy flat out..thats not gonna happen..and if that does..the girl is labelled as a feminist...the worse case kinda girl that an MCP will never never accept as a gf...

in the case of doing simple stuff in life...a girl is to respect him in all cases and approach him if she needs help and is not to overrule him in anything..cos guys r the superior gender..so should excel above in every case...

and in the case of wooing a girl (applies to me largely)...the guy is suppose to take the first initiative if the girl isnt..but the girl should be largely more attracted to the guy than he is to her...should like "worship" him and after the first step is taken...the girl should always submit and be the one that usually tries to please him instead of vice versa...

okay..that sounds bad in terms of how a MCP is like..its hard to describe in words..but its a really annoying thing if ur bf is one...my gfs would have understood...one excelling me in subjects and studies..while another one trying to overrule me in the position of being the "guy" in the relationship...

but if u know me..i'm not totally hardcore MCP..so its still alright..or else i wouldnt have so many galfriends too i guess..its just very traditional of a guy in this age of equality to still in fact,insist that the girl should submit and guys r the lead in every relationship and in everything...

i mean ya..equality prevails in a relationship..but somehow..someone msut take lead..and obviously..guys have alot of pride...how is it possible to let down all of it..especially when an MCP has like loads of them...to a girl?

its really interesting to have understood my case of being an MCP..its gd and bad...gd in the sense of being mostly gentleman and being able to lead in relationships and friendships where pple like to submit and r waiting to be led...but bad in the sense of pple that do not do it on purpose..but excel on things u think u should do better in..

the worse thing u can do to an MCP is question his masculinity..thats like wrong..cos if he expects to excel above girls..he most probably will wan to excel above guys in the range of anything a guy does...so naturally..u should know why that MCP is like so serious on everything u puts his mind to doing...

there's only like a thin line between an egoist and an MCP..an MCP isnt proud..but just his mindset and thinkings already cause him to have the need to be more superior than others as a "higher being" in the situation..but as an egoist..its very different...he wont take things seriously..and in fact..he most of the time loses because of overconfidence..and thinking he has arleady won b4 even doing so...and mostly makes a fool out of himself..cos even when he's wrong..he doesnt want to admit it..

i dunno why i'm talking so much abt this..but if this entry doesnt make sense to u..maybe i understand..cos i feel like i'm just talking shit...but hope it caused some food of thought into guys why i'm like that..while to girls,watch out abt me and other guys or even ur bfs that suffer from such problems..maybe u will find a way around it if u understand him more..and submit more...i dun believe there's 100% MCPs left...but there is sure to be some guys that suffer from a bit of it..dun condemn them..understand them..they dun suffer from the whole disease..but as prideful mammals..we do have some stuff in us that we need to settle as a guy with u girls..

okay..i think i better leave...staying here to type the last few sentences of this is pathetic when everyone has left and i'm left here alone interacting with this stupid com...cya guys around..do "shout" in my box if u visit or something..or happen to read this stupid entry..=) God bless

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